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Ultimate Tuxedo Guide

Cover of 'The Ultimate Tuxedo Guide for the LDS Groom' featuring an elegant groom in a classic tuxedo, symbolizing style and grace for LDS weddings.

The Ultimate Tuxedo Guide for the LDS Groom: Style Your Wedding with Elegance:

Amidst the whirlwind of wedding planning, selecting the perfect tuxedo emerges as a symbol of respect, tradition, and personal expression. This guide is meticulously crafted to ensure when you step forward to seal your vows, you do so with grace, confidence, and a style that complements the significance of your sacred day.

Let’s start with a quick tuxedo checklist:

Tuxedos Purchase or Rentals: 

  • Tuxedo Jacket
  • Tuxedo Pants
  • Shirt
  • Vest or Cummerbund
  • Shoes
  • Socks
  • Tie
  • Cufflinks
  • Tuxedo Jacket

Tuxedo jackets come in many styles ranging from a single-breasted one button to double breasted six buttons with tails. You can ask the advice of the tux salesman but checking the fit of the tux jacket and the tux pants (with the jacket off) in the mirror in the tux shop is always advised. A classic single-breasted suit is never wrong unless the event calls for top hat and tails. Just kidding- tails are reserved for the most formal wedding and other very formal occasions.

You decide which style best compliments most of the figures of the Father of the Bride (FOB), the Father of the Groom (FOG), the Best Man, and the Groomsmen and of course you-The groom!

Note: Having everyone wear the same tuxedo style (single breasted or double breasted) is nice, but not mandatory. Some members of the wedding party, usually the FOB or FOG may own a tuxedo. Sometimes your bride and you may want the groomsmen to use the bridal colors as accents in the ties, cummerbunds or vests to bring the look of the wedding together. All the Tuxedo’s should be the same color, usually black.

 

Tuxedo Pants

Your tuxedo pants must match the tuxedo style, and the color and fabric that has been selected for the jacket. Formal tuxedo pants have a traditional racing stripe down the leg, usually made of silk. There may be an option on tux pants with pleats or with no pleats.

 

Tuxedo Shirt

Tuxedo shirts come in many styles, with pleats and without. There are several types of collars available. Make sure that all men in the wedding party get the same style. Most tux shirts come with French cuffs (requiring cufflinks) and they have studs instead of buttons on the shirt. If you have questions about any of these, ask the salesperson at the tux shop; they should help you.

Tuxedo Vest or Cummerbund

To most affairs, it is acceptable to pair a tie with a cummerbund or vest. A cummerbund is that large, oversized silk belt-looking thing that is worn around the waist over the top of the tux pants and the bottom of the tux shirt. Select the color and style to coordinate with the other men in the wedding party.

 

Grooms often ask the question: “Which way do the cummerbunds pleats face: Up or Down?” The correct answer is the cummerbund’s pleats always face UP. And please note, if you decided on a vest, you would not wear a cummerbund with the vest.

 

Images Courtesy of (in order) Jarvie Digital, Carly Daniel Photography, Amelia Lyon Photography and Wasatch Studios

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